Ashes of Erin (khesed) wrote in singlechristian,
Ashes of Erin

Hello. I have an dillema... the girl I am falling for has been acting like she likes me and the relationship turned to the point where we've been kissing and dancing and hugging, all that jazz. She said, after the physical aspect of the relationship started that she just wants to be friends, yet every time I see her she is still acting as if we are in some kind of romantic relationship and wants to be physical, yet admantly maintains that we aren't dating. As such it is making me feel dirty and unfulfilled.

I don't want anything like friends with benefits because nothing will come of it and there's no point of dating anyone if there's zero possibility of advancement into marriage from the start. This relationship as it is, with no hope of advancement (according to her) is feeling more and more hollow every time I see her.

I care about her and want to take it to the next level. I don't know if there is the possibility of her changing her mind if we just hung out more, but I'd want to hang out without being physical if that was the case. I don't know what to do or what to tell her. Does anyone have any advice?
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